1. Women have an inherent nature to not want to hurt people's feelings.
2. When we get together we are just so excited we just don't think before we speak, thus we say stupid things. ( I am mostly speaking for myself here)
3.The conversation gets so deep that it takes a long time to process and when you finally have you can send out an email saying what you "really meant".
4. You just really like these people and hope beyond hope that you'll be invited to the next lunch.
Nonetheless, I have to say, the post mortem emails are some of my favoite parts of the lunch. It is funny to see how people thought they were being offensive. To be honest have never been offended by any of the things they were apologizing for, but they are still fun to read, I hope they keep coming and I hope I keep getting invited back.
In Femininity Brownmiller called the bob haircut "an anguished act of rebellion".
My ideal hair-cut in a perfect world.